What a beautiful post, Ambarina. Your mum was a remarkable and amazing lady, and I’m sure she was really proud of you and the rest of the family. One thing I’ve learned since losing my dad is life may be short but this world is only temporary and inshallah you will be reunited with your parents in the afterlife. This keeps me going, so I hope it will give you some comfort too. It’s true that things will never be the same or normal, you just learn to adapt but keeping her memory alive in your heart and mind will help. In time you will remember quirky little things about your mum – even the most minor details and it’ll make you smile. I imagine losing a mother is a lot harder than losing a father…all I can say is take each day as it comes and never lose faith. Talk as much or a little as you want…just do what feels right.
If there’s anything I can help with, I’m only down the road. Xxxx
Condolences on your loss, Ambarina. Your mother sounds lovely and your relationship with her wonderful. More than happy to stay with you as long as it takes, and thinking of you at this hard time, love Rachel xxx
Thank you Rachel…taking each day, one at a time xx
Julia Di-Vito
13 January 2018 / 6:34 pm
Beautiful words and my heart goes out to you. Such a lovely idea to write all your thoughts down. I’m sure this will bring you great comfort and rememberance of cherished memories that stay with you forever. Your Mum will live on in you and what a beautiful & amazing credit you are to her. Take care xx
I’m so sorry lovely. Know that your mum and you are in my thoughts and duas. I can’t imagine your grief and I am so sorry that you and your family had to experience this. Take your time, don’t put any pressure on yourself to deliver professionally. There are some things that the world can wait for you, this is one of them. Lots of love, Tanzina x
What a beautiful post, Ambarina. Your mum was a remarkable and amazing lady, and I’m sure she was really proud of you and the rest of the family. One thing I’ve learned since losing my dad is life may be short but this world is only temporary and inshallah you will be reunited with your parents in the afterlife. This keeps me going, so I hope it will give you some comfort too. It’s true that things will never be the same or normal, you just learn to adapt but keeping her memory alive in your heart and mind will help. In time you will remember quirky little things about your mum – even the most minor details and it’ll make you smile. I imagine losing a mother is a lot harder than losing a father…all I can say is take each day as it comes and never lose faith. Talk as much or a little as you want…just do what feels right.
If there’s anything I can help with, I’m only down the road. Xxxx
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Thanks so much Sheenie… lots of love xx
Condolences on your loss, Ambarina. Your mother sounds lovely and your relationship with her wonderful. More than happy to stay with you as long as it takes, and thinking of you at this hard time, love Rachel xxx
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Thank you Rachel…taking each day, one at a time xx
Beautiful words and my heart goes out to you. Such a lovely idea to write all your thoughts down. I’m sure this will bring you great comfort and rememberance of cherished memories that stay with you forever. Your Mum will live on in you and what a beautiful & amazing credit you are to her. Take care xx
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Thank you Julia… it was actually my sister that told me write it down to help me get to grips with my thoughts and feelings xx
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your mother sounds like a wonderful lady. May she rest in peace xx
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Thank you for your kind words Siobhán xx
I’m so sorry lovely. Know that your mum and you are in my thoughts and duas. I can’t imagine your grief and I am so sorry that you and your family had to experience this. Take your time, don’t put any pressure on yourself to deliver professionally. There are some things that the world can wait for you, this is one of them. Lots of love, Tanzina x
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Thank you Tanzina… there are good days and bad but we have wonderful memories to console us xx
So sorry for your loss. Your mum sounds like an amazing human being. Prayers and thought to you and your family xxx
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Thank you Amina, she was truly inspirational…trying to live up to her example xx